Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Sexual Fantasies Improve your sex life

A sexual fantasy is something which can be best described as a trigger to kick start a sexual union or any kind of sexual activity. Each and every person has in the store house of his memory one or more sexual fantasies. These are the stimulus for the sexual activity of that person. Those who say that they don’t have any such sexual fantasies are either lying or they are impotent. The trigger has to be present in every person, without the trigger one will not be able to fire.

To know what really sexual fantasies are, first let’s have a look at our sub-conscious mind. Our sub-conscious mind is like an abyss, hidden, fathomless and mysterious, yet it is more important than the working mind. Please keep in mind that it is not the conscious mind that activates and controls us but the sub-conscious mind. All our senses and bodily organs are in fact an extension of this sub-conscious mind.

The five senses of vision, hearing, smell, taste, and touch are in continuous state of observation and experience. What ever they observe and experience is stored in the mind. The observations and experiences which effect one the most, automatically find their way to the deepest part of the mind which is the sub-conscious. When one faces certain situations like sexual activity, these innermost impressions trigger off a chain reaction, which then affects your entire body, including the relevant body parts which correspond to that activity.


Sexual Fantasies
When one or more of the five senses experience the same conditions, as those stored in the sub-conscious, the sub-conscious mind takes over. The sub-conscious mind then invents realistic stories and situations revolving around sexual activity. This story or sexual fantasy revolves around the trigger or sexual stimulus.The working of the sub-conscious mind is still a mystery, it knows best what excites you, and hence it produces tailor made fantasies to suit you needs.

Most people make the mistake in thinking that sexual fantasies are something abnormal. The psychiatrists and counselors don’t tell you the truth, simply because they don’t know the truth. These guys teach you about ways and means to get rid of your fantasies. You must ask these chaps about their fantasies, if they tell you that don’t have any such sexual fantasies you must ask them if they are impotent.

Sexual fantasies are of countless types and varieties.Most people don’t tell you about their real fantasies, for fear of being looked at as someone abnormal. Everyone when asked about their sexual fantasies gives some stereotyped answers like perfumes, silk clothing, music or some other non controversial answer. You must remember that you are not alone; everyone has fantasies like your own.

On the spiritual side I must tell you that sexual urge is the most creative force in the Universe, because it has the potential to create. Each and every living organism is created through this sexual urge or the creative force. The founders of religion and the moral gurus have done great harm to mankind, by classifying sexual activity as something to be hidden, something which is bad and immoral. What they forget is that they themselves were created because their parents enjoyed sexual activity.

Suppression of sexual fantasies leads towards blockages of energy in your mind and body. These blockages are removed by playing out your sexual fantasies. All sexual fantasies have to be played out, unless they are life threatening or injurious to the partners. This will release the blocked energy, and heal most mental and physical problems. The mind and body will experience the power of the creative energy in its fullest.

One has to learn to live with ones sexual fantasies. Both the partners that is husband and wife or two lovers, must look at each others sexual fantasies in a positive and objective manner. If one understands fully what sexual fantasies really are, and enjoys them to the fullest, then it will take your sexual life to new heights. Your motto should be enjoying your sexual life to your hearts content.


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3 comments:

  1. This is a wonderful post. So many people are raised to feel guilty or ashamed of their sexual fantasies, but they add joy and vitality to one's life.

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  2. Some fantasies are outrageous.We find it hard to understand them but discussing about them makes one accept and not ashamed of them.incredible post.

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  3. hi neel,i have a doubt ....so according to what you have mentioned above can i have more than one physical relation relation.
    please reply.

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