Sex is not some technical method or function, which can be done mechanically. Sexual Union between a couple, by couple I mean two lovers, man and wife is the most natural thing in the world. Most newly weds are in a state of utter confusion, about sex.This is not really their fault, it is the mutations which have been created in their minds, through wrong religious preachings,man made scriptures and rules as regards sexual activity and Sexual Health.While embarking upon a new life both husband and wife are well advised to keep the following things in mind.
How can sex be considered a four letter word or something taboo? If it was something bad and unnatural, wouldn’t God have created some other method for living beings to reproduce? Sexual The vibrations which are created during the entire course of a Sexual Union are of the highest frequency. These frequencies create an energy which is the most powerful and pure energy. Newly weds have to always keep in mind that the end result of a Sexual Union is the creation of a new life or a new energy. So how can this energy which creates a new life be bad or taboo, something which should not be discussed? It’s only because of this energy, that you and everyone else exist don’t they?
Sexual Union can be best enjoyed when it is spontaneous, and not pre planned. During spontaneous sex, the creative energy gushes out at great force and engulfs you; this is the best and most powerful kind of Sexual Union. The active participation of both the partners is essential. If one of the partners is excited and desires to have sex on the spur of the moment, the other should respond immediately. During spontaneous sex, the thoughts and plans one has made just fade away, and nothing enters your mind other than the overpowering urge to have a Sexual Union with your partner.
It is not always possible for a couple to have sex, as and when they desire, due to practical problems, like place, time and the presence of people. The next best Sexual Union, next only to spontaneous sex, is the one when both the partners can’t wait to be in a private place. In such union the mind is completely focused on how to be alone and enoy.The other thoughts are pushed out and only, this over powering sexual urge remains.
The third kind of Sexual Union is when the spontaneous ness or that overpowering urge is not there. In such cases it is always advisable to discuss with your partner on how to enjoy and improve your sex life. This is the case of couples who have been married for some time. It is advisable to have an open mind, and not to hide anything from your partner. Both partners should actively participate in finding new ways to improve their sex life.
Sexual fantasies are an integral part and parcel of the human mind. Each and every person has his own unique sexual fantasies. Both the partners should share their innermost fantasies in a un inhabited and frank manner. Both the partners should whole heartedly participate in the fantasies of each other. Again I must mention here that fantasies cannot be created mechanically, like the wearing of sexy clothes,applying perfumes and other such aids.
Sexual fantasies are the desires and want of the inner most mind or the sub-conscious. These fantasies are nothing more than blockages in the flow of energy. If these fantasies are played out, then there is a release of the blocked energy.This realised energy can dramatically improve your general health as well. There is no harm in playing out and enjoying the fantasies of each other, as long as they are not life threatening. If both the partners have the same fantasies there is nothing like it, if not then the other partner should adapt to the role of the active participant and to start believing in that role from the bottom of his/her heart. Both partners should remember that as long as you enjoy them, fantasies should be played out.
The last thing one must remember is that proper exercise and a good diet are as important in improving your sex life, as in improving your general health. The exercise and diet should not be forced, but something which you enjoy doing.
This is excellent advice, especially regarding sexual fantasies. The outlook you present here towards sex is a very healthy and exciting one.
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